Hold up to him his better self, his real self that can dare and do and win out… People radiate what is in their minds and in their hearts.

“Oh, yes, the game was to just find something about everything to be glad about – not matter what twas,” rejoined Pollyanna earnestly. “And we began right then – on the crutches.”

What men and women need is encouragement… Instead of always harping on a man’s faults, tell him of his virtues. Try to pull him out of his rut of bad habits.